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Bruce L's avatar

Re: Preferences... this one really snapped my head around because I do it almost daily with my partner; the majority of the time because of the options offered I really DON’T have a preference but also possibly because she asks for my preference or opinion on almost everything that could possibly involve a choice and I just don’t want to get into a discussion about it or feel it needs my input. Now I’m going to be watching this more closely to see if it might negatively impact our communication and relationship or perhaps it’s by now just the embedded automatic behavior of “an old married couple” which we are most certainly not! 🤔😐.....interesting

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Michael Compeau's avatar

Let's get real. In my life the 'non-preference' is ALWAYS expressed by my pertner. Well, UNTIL I make a choice (any choice, it seems) and she has the opportunity to vociferously VETO the choice made.

No help in deciding --just rejection of the first (and often second and third) choice.

Reading this made me anxious!

I have to go make tea now...)sigh(

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